After working with me, you will know how to feel confident, energized, motivated, and excited -
anytime you want.
You think that you have to change your life to be happy and feel better.
But the truth is you have to learn how to FEEL better now, before you make any changes. Because if you don’t, you will be the same person in that new career, in that new house, in that new relationship, in that new body, in that new life. And you will end up right back where you started - with the same stress, overwhelm, anxiety and burn out. You are the only common denominator between these two version of your life.
I can help.
My program teaches you how to feel better, anytime you need or want to. I teach you how to feel your feelings and what is actually creating them in the first place. And that’s where the magic begins. When you learn how to deliberately create the feelings that you want - you will be doing the things that you want to be doing in your life because your feelings are the reason that you do everything you do. They are the most important thing. And that’s why what I teach you in my program is the secret to getting anything and everything you want out of your life.
How does it work?
We get to chat every week, one on one through a program called Zoom. It’s just a video conference call. It’s like having your BFF all to yourself for an entire hour each week, with no distractions or interruptions. Only this BFF (me) has the answers and solutions to all of your problems. You also get access to me through Marco Polo (a super fun video app that your kids are probably already using) for those moments when you are feeling intense emotion and need my help right then and there to help you tame that negative emotional spiral. It's like having your very own personal Rachel Hollis or Brene Brown or Oprah walking with you along the whole path to getting exactly what you want.
So, what’s next?
The very first step is for you to click the link at the bottom of this page to grab your FREE 30 minute Consult Call. In this call, I will diagnose the real reason that you are feeling stress, overwhelm, and anxiety and you procrastinate in the first place. And it’s not what you think it is. Because if it was, you wouldn’t be here with me reading this. If you knew what it was, you would have already fixed it. Once we know what the real IT is, we can work together on solving it. I only offer a few of these each week, so make sure you grab yours right now.
I know you are thinking that you don’t have time for this.
I get it. You are a busy, working Mom with a million things on your plate. But when you are feeling stressed out, overwhelmed, and burnt out, how productive are you? Are you actually getting things done and knocked off your to do list? Probably not. So, if you learned how to feel motivated and energized, anytime you want - wouldn’t you get more done? Learning this skill will actually create time in your life. Do you really have time NOT to do it?
Or you might think it won’t work for you because you have tried everything to fix it and nothing has worked.
You haven’t tried what I teach you in this program. Because if you had, you wouldn’t be here. You would have already fixed your emotional pain and would be living the life of your dreams. Nobody teaches us about our emotions. It’s not like this is a class that’s offered in middle school or high school so you have done the best you could with what you knew. But it’s time to know more so you can do more and live more.
Or you might be feeling scared or vulnerable about hopping on a call and telling a complete stranger your deepest, darkest secrets.
I totally get this too. It’s exactly how I felt when I started working with my first coach. But what I learned is that it’s actually so freeing to tell someone else who has my best interest and no emotional attachment to my life my hurts and my pain and what I actually really want in my life. When I spoke it out loud to another human, it opened up my heart and my mind to what was truly possible for me in my life. It’s like having a weekly coffee date with your BFF only your BFF in this scenario is someone who has all the answers, is your champion no matter what and it’s her job to get you exactly what you want. I will never not have a coach in my life and in fact I have two coaches right now. There will always be something else that I want to get and I know that the fastest path to getting it is with a coach guiding me there.
Working with Coach Neill has really influenced my life in so many positive ways. From an overall increase in self-confidence to the ability to make strong confident decisions and showing up as a leader through it all. She has really changed my life and I could not have done it without her help, she is truly amazing to work with, and I can’t wait to tackle the next change with her help.
When I first started my work with Neil, I was a bit of a skeptic. I didn't buy into what I considered to be the "self-help" industry. I've always considered myself to be fairly self-aware--even if I didn't necessarily act to solve my problems, I was, at the very least, aware of them as well as my own role in causing them.
However, working with Neill has given me a new perspective on my life. I'm learning how to accept things that are outside of my control, manage my mind and avoid obsessing over things that cause me stress, and be accepting of my life, both present and past. I find myself often thinking about the lessons that Neill taught me during my every day life, especially when I face obstacles. Several months ago, I would have let these issues cause extreme stress, fear, and frustration, but, using the approach that Neill has taught me, I am experiencing fewer and fewer negative emotions when conflict arises. I've been a "control freak" my whole life, but my work with her has helped me realize that it serves me much better to let go of my need to control others. My work with Neill has made me not only happier in the moment, but also more hopeful for the future. For the first time in a long time, I feel certain that life only gets better from here.
I look forward to continuing my work with this absolutely amazing coach.
I had been looking for a relationship coach to help me take a deep dive into my relationship with my son; and then I found Neill and she put me at ease immediately. I had a lot of anger, disappointment, judgment and resentment about what my son did and didn’t do but I was avoiding all of it and trying to push it under the rug. The problem is when we resist or avoid our feelings they keep coming back with a vengeance. All these pent up negative emotions caused me to hold back my love for my son and myself. Neill helped me unlock all the negative thoughts and emotions I had about my son and myself as a mother that were causing me a lot of suffering. I did the work to uncover a lot of my thoughts and stories about what has happened in the past which was not fun but was necessary. She also helped me see that I was only responsible for my own thoughts, feeling and actions and not my son’s or anyone else’s. I was able to drop my story about things that happened in the past and let all the anger, resentment, judgment and disappointment go and realize the only thing that mattered was that I love my son and that I was the perfect Mom for him. Love feels so much better than holding onto negative emotion and suffering is completely optional. My heart feels so free and open and now I have unconditional love for myself, my son and my family. Unconditional love is available in all my relationships. It is a choice we make for ourselves. Thank you Neill for asking tough questions, helping me make sense of my thoughts and emotions and coaching me on what is possible. I have had a relationship transformation and so can you.
You have put the needs and wants of everyone else ahead of your own. You have delegated you to the bottom of your priority list. That’s why you are where you are now. So, in order to get to a different place, you have to do something different. Like putting yourself first. You are not a bad Mom or wife or taking anything away from your family for deciding to take care of yourself. You do not need to feel guilty or shameful about wanting something more for yourself, a better life. You were meant for more - to be happy, confident, excited and fulfilled. It’s been waiting for you.